M.S.V.W = Modern Swedish Viking Woman
I would hardly say I'm a feminist, I'm more comfortable with the term: Modern Swedish Woman.
We all have different mentality, and I guess the perfect woman is different in different contries. And also there are assholes in all contries, of course. So, what defines the Swedish ideal woman (at least according to Swedish women). I think we can all agree that we are not afraid to stand our ground, and we are not quiet mice, doing what the men tells us to, we are who we are, we will not be quiet down because people think we are less of a woman if we speak our mind. I always speak my mind. And I always take action if necessary. Yes, we are about 200 years before women from most contries outside of Europe (sorry for being judgemental).
We look down on the kind women that obeys husband without blinking. We look down on the kind of woman who stays with her man even though he is hurting her, both physically and mentaly, seeming to think marriage is more important than the wellbeing of herself.
In my own experience, men from some cultures seem to be unable to accept the fact that I was brought up to be a Swedish woman and that I don't accpet bullshit from him, just to make it easy on him. One man has even told me that I should not speak as I was with his male friends, because a good woman should just be present without expressing her opinion out loud. (YEAH, LIKE THAT'S GONNA HAPPEN!!)
I have a good example from a Nigerian guy with whom I had a very vivid discussion once:
- Are your parents still married?
- of course!
- Of course??
- Yeah, my mum's a darling..
- Meaning?
- Yeah, she is a good woman!
- What makes her a good woman?
- She knows her place, she makes no trouble for my dad, she respects him.
- Well, does he respect her?
- Yeah! Of course he does!
- Is he cheating on her?
- Yeah!
- And she knows about it?
- I think so, but she knows her place and, after all, if she does everything about it she will destroy the family!! What kind of mother would she be if she started making trouble between her and her husband?
- I see...........
I would like to tell this woman: Wake up girl, you've got it all twisted! Sad, sad woman. It's this kind of woman that is a weak woman, thinking that if she takes action SHE is the one destroying the family! NO, the moment that husband of hers put his dick into another woman HE broke the family up.
Or wait! I forgot.. Men are allowed to fuck everything they see, they are after all animals..
I am a Viking, and I have the right to play as much as men, thank you very much!
We all have different mentality, and I guess the perfect woman is different in different contries. And also there are assholes in all contries, of course. So, what defines the Swedish ideal woman (at least according to Swedish women). I think we can all agree that we are not afraid to stand our ground, and we are not quiet mice, doing what the men tells us to, we are who we are, we will not be quiet down because people think we are less of a woman if we speak our mind. I always speak my mind. And I always take action if necessary. Yes, we are about 200 years before women from most contries outside of Europe (sorry for being judgemental).
We look down on the kind women that obeys husband without blinking. We look down on the kind of woman who stays with her man even though he is hurting her, both physically and mentaly, seeming to think marriage is more important than the wellbeing of herself.
In my own experience, men from some cultures seem to be unable to accept the fact that I was brought up to be a Swedish woman and that I don't accpet bullshit from him, just to make it easy on him. One man has even told me that I should not speak as I was with his male friends, because a good woman should just be present without expressing her opinion out loud. (YEAH, LIKE THAT'S GONNA HAPPEN!!)
I have a good example from a Nigerian guy with whom I had a very vivid discussion once:
- Are your parents still married?
- of course!
- Of course??
- Yeah, my mum's a darling..
- Meaning?
- Yeah, she is a good woman!
- What makes her a good woman?
- She knows her place, she makes no trouble for my dad, she respects him.
- Well, does he respect her?
- Yeah! Of course he does!
- Is he cheating on her?
- Yeah!
- And she knows about it?
- I think so, but she knows her place and, after all, if she does everything about it she will destroy the family!! What kind of mother would she be if she started making trouble between her and her husband?
- I see...........
I would like to tell this woman: Wake up girl, you've got it all twisted! Sad, sad woman. It's this kind of woman that is a weak woman, thinking that if she takes action SHE is the one destroying the family! NO, the moment that husband of hers put his dick into another woman HE broke the family up.
Or wait! I forgot.. Men are allowed to fuck everything they see, they are after all animals..
I am a Viking, and I have the right to play as much as men, thank you very much!
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