nicolovesit

When does something become an addiction? Is it when people tell you that they are or is it when you, yourself, realise they are? But you hardly ever realise that you have a problem until the people around you show their concern.. But what if it's an addiction that no one can see, because it takes place in your home, when you are all alone? Is it still an addiction even if you think you are in control, except you would never so it unless you are alone because of the shame that someone would see you? The only thing that could make you realise that you are, in fact, addicted is if it would somehow taken away and it becomes clear that you cannot live without it.. Then what do you do?