my little brother
For several weeks the little boy I'm watching has been a real problem child, it hasn't been good at all between us. I have been taking care of him for one and a half year now and I know him. But this boy, I don't recognise at all. And it's sad.
So today we had the biggest fight ever and I could no longer pretend that nothing was wrong. It's almost as if he does everything in his power to get some kind of reaction from me. He is just so angry, all the time.
So I took a moment and tryed to go back in time to when I was his age and I knew straight away that something was wrong. He is lonely. So I called his mother and said that this behavior has got to stop now, she was very worried when she found out about this since he has always been so attached to me, and she found it worrying that he suddenly had so much hatred towards me.
After hanging up, I sat down with him, playing the calm "shrink - Nicole" and asked all those button pushing questions to find out what was really going on. And ít turns out that he, as so many other children that age, had lost his best friend and were now walking alone in school.
It broke my heart as he told me this, he is like my little brother and I care so much about him and I want him to be happy. We had a long talk about how life could sometimes be hard and I told him about my problems in school, and that I were alone every single day until junior highschool when I finally started to make friends.
Anyway that's all I have to say for now. I have such a tension headache and I need to go to bed, but I did get invited do a party tonight but I'm not going.
Loneliness is something most people have felt in their life.
But what if it never passes?
Bisous strangers
So today we had the biggest fight ever and I could no longer pretend that nothing was wrong. It's almost as if he does everything in his power to get some kind of reaction from me. He is just so angry, all the time.
So I took a moment and tryed to go back in time to when I was his age and I knew straight away that something was wrong. He is lonely. So I called his mother and said that this behavior has got to stop now, she was very worried when she found out about this since he has always been so attached to me, and she found it worrying that he suddenly had so much hatred towards me.
After hanging up, I sat down with him, playing the calm "shrink - Nicole" and asked all those button pushing questions to find out what was really going on. And ít turns out that he, as so many other children that age, had lost his best friend and were now walking alone in school.
It broke my heart as he told me this, he is like my little brother and I care so much about him and I want him to be happy. We had a long talk about how life could sometimes be hard and I told him about my problems in school, and that I were alone every single day until junior highschool when I finally started to make friends.
Anyway that's all I have to say for now. I have such a tension headache and I need to go to bed, but I did get invited do a party tonight but I'm not going.
Loneliness is something most people have felt in their life.
But what if it never passes?
Bisous strangers
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